In life, sometimes we work with the unpleasant results of our almost unplanned past. We allow uncertainties and insecurities veil our faces from seeing the actual lesson embedded in our experiences.  We fail to imbibe the key reasons why we had to go through those experiences, the refining process we aught to embrace and the unbeatable self validation we owe the core of our very existence.

Remember that the unfolding of the worst events always births the emergence of the greatest champions. Every darkness, every tussle, every question, every detour simultaneously working against you (but in actual fact working for you) are all in order to produce a gem that is not easily broken.  

Life often weaves a complex tapestry of comfort and change, and it was during one particular chapter of my life that I found myself caught in the intricate threads of complacency. I had grown so accustomed to the "bad" state I was in, that the thought of stepping into the unknown "good" terrified me. Yet, I couldn't shake the persistent feeling that there was more to life, something better waiting for me.

I vividly recall a pivotal moment in my life when this internal struggle reached its zenith. I was working a job that paid the bills but left me unfulfilled. I had dreams and aspirations that seemed distant and unattainable. My comfort zone, though stifling, felt like a safe haven compared to the uncertainty that change represented. It was then that I realized that nobody who had ever achieved greatness had done so by clinging to comfort in mediocrity.

But my journey towards embracing change was far from smooth sailing. The external judgments from people around me cast a shadow on my ambitions. They questioned my choices and doubted my decisions. Slowly but surely, I internalized these judgments, and I began to judge myself through the very same critical lens as those around me.

However, there was a turning point. I met someone who had walked a similar path, faced their own fears, and emerged triumphant on the other side. Their story became a beacon of hope in my life. They showed me that it was possible to break free from the comfort trap, to defy external judgments, and to chase after one's dreams.

With their encouragement and guidance, I took the first step away from the familiar "bad" towards the unknown "good." It was a leap of faith, accompanied by the ever-present fear of failure. But with each step, I began to shed the weight of external judgments and self-doubt that had held me back for so long.

As I continued on this path of change and growth, I discovered that the fear and uncertainty that once paralyzed me were, in fact, my greatest allies. They pushed me to stretch beyond my limits, to explore new horizons, and to challenge the status quo. And gradually, the "bad" that had once defined me transformed into a stepping stone towards the "good" I had always yearned for.

Why share this? my personal journey taught me that life's most significant transformations often begin with a single, courageous step. Embracing change is not easy, especially when external judgments threaten to weigh us down. But it's essential to remember that our potential is not defined by the opinions of others. By daring to step out of our comfort zones and defy external judgments, we open the door to our true potential and the possibility of achieving greatness.

My story serves as a testament to the power of change and the resilience of the human spirit. It's a reminder that we all have the capacity to break free from the chains of mediocrity, to silence the critics (including ourselves), and to pursue our dreams with unwavering determination. So, I urge you to take that first step, to embrace change, and to embark on your own journey towards greatness.